frankly speaking, i find these kind of yaojia very easily manipulated, the more yao jia-ness they possess, the more they think they are independent minded, and the higher they are in corporate ladder or in political position, infact, the more vulnerable they are...but they do possess one trait, that is cunning.
look at this chinese word
奸。 There is some truth in it...
i conclude they are just a bunch of no-brainers (stooooopidity so to speak)...i have never met any women whether young or old who are really smart and independent minded, if there happen to be one, i think she is not a real woman.
just my observation, i may be wrong....:p
Me wants to take on the blue-haired 蜘蛛精 man. The rest other bros here can settle.